Although there are some dog owners who think along the "alpha-pack-dog" lines when it comes to affection, we really know our English Cream Retrievers, and we know these dogs are the very essence of affection and the desire to please. Returning their natural instincts with anything other than affection would break their sweet spirits and we are all about nurturing and bonding with our dogs. We hug all of our dogs and they love it!
Dogs love massages, too. If he sits in your lap - no matter how big he is - hell love scratches behind his ears. If you can get him to roll over, he loves belly massages. Hugs while youve got him up close and personal are particularly enjoyed by your dog. He knows for sure by your hugs and massages that you love him.
And how do dogs show their affection back to you? Well they certainly cant use words, but they can and do use actions. Its up to you to discover the action your dog is using to show you his love. He might wag his tail when his tail is upright. (Tail wagging can have many meanings, so watch your dog carefully to see if its about joy or nervousness.) He could lick you. He likes the salty taste of your sweat and its a way of bonding with his human that shows his love. He might bark and jump - and its a jump for joy at the very sight of you! Its heartwarming to see a dog jumping excitedly because hes so happy to see you.
Dogs can smile, and their smiles show the same feelings as a human smile does. If you see your dog smiling, smile back at him.
Your dog might need some extra affection if you are leaving the home, because he might be suffering separation anxiety. Your dog might become jittery or whiney if hes accustomed to being with you more, so be sensitive to his emotions. A slight pat on the head could be reassuring.
Golden puppies love to be praised, so your words of praise mean a lot to him, particularly when hes behaved well and deserves it. Spending quality time with your dog shows you love him, as does discipline. Humans love to know where the boundaries are, and so do dogs, so he would see your establishing the lines of boundaries or discipline as a way that you love him. Work to find a good balance between discipline and affection that is clear to your dog.
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