Breaking bread is a ritual of friendship and respect even for us uncouth and clueless humans. Granted, we sit together at a table with cutlery and wine and candles instead of going around throwing pieces of sausage to the people we’d like to be friends with—but at its core the statement of sharing (and providing) food is just as powerful: I mean you no harm. I’m on your side.
Food is a powerful ally for dog rescuers. Well, it can be. If you’ve been following this series, you know enough to suspect even something as friendly as food is nowhere near fail-safe.
~ THE BAIT ~
Forget dog kibble. Ferals and long-time strays forage for their meals in our trash, and the finest kibble will never match the scent of a discarded half-eaten burger, or even the cleanest-picked chicken bone.
So use those. (Not the bones. Dogs should never, ever get chicken bones.) Sausage, liverwurst, (cooked) chicken or meat, chicken livers, ham, cheese… Okay, you get the idea.
~ THE LURE ~
No, don’t use a steak. Think about it. Feral, skinny, very hungry dog gets a huge, juicy steak? First thing s/he’ll do is run off to a safe place to eat it. Safe, by the way, meaning out of sight. Sure, s/he might come back for more eventually, but not until s/he’s slept it off; his/her reduced stomach will need a boa nap to digest this unexpected windfall of protein and fat.
Whatever goody you’ve chosen, cut it up into pieces the size of your fingertip. Yes, it’s a messy job. Include baby wipes in your Dog Rescue Kit.
~ THE HOW ~
This rescue is a great example. The challenge was not just that the dogs were scared, but that there were two of them. He couldve leashed one of them right off, but then the other one wouldve gotten away—and never, ever allowed him to get close again. This man is a rock star.
THE GOAL
Get the dog to approach you—or let you approach them. Food is your negotiation tool.
Careful: this is about trust. Don’t make it a “come closer and you’ll get more” kind of conversation. The dog will sense ulterior motives, so make it easy on everyone and be upfront about what you want. Yes, I want to touch you. Food is not a reward or a distraction; it’s a token of your goodwill.
Careful: this is about trust. Don’t make it a “come closer and you’ll get more” kind of conversation. The dog will sense ulterior motives, so make it easy on everyone and be upfront about what you want. Yes, I want to touch you. Food is not a reward or a distraction; it’s a token of your goodwill.
REMEMBER YOUR MANNERS
Don’t look them in the eye. Sit on the ground to take away some of that scary human uprightness, and don’t face them head-on; letting them approach you a little from the side makes you less intimidating.
GET THE DOG TO...
Throw a couple of pieces (softly; remember the dog has probably had stones thrown at him/her, and you really don’t want to fall into that category of two-legged monster) close to the dog so s/he can easily sniff and eat them, and recognize them as something good. Throw them progressively closer to you. Read the dog; when s/he hesitates, throw one or two pieces where s/he can easily reach them, then continue shortening the “bread-crumb” path.
... EAT FROM YOUR HAND
When the dog is close enough, offer him/her a piece from your hand, palm up. Holding it in your fingers is inviting the dog to snatch it; s/he might miscalculate, take a bit of finger along. Which will make you snatch your hand back—and that burst of movement, as well as your burst of adrenaline, will drive the dog right back to where you lured him/her from. (Remember what we said about getting hurt being only important in the measure in which it affects Getting The Dog?)
Keep your hand below their nose level, and move slow. Not hesitating. Just slow. Breathe. If you want this dog to trust you, youll need to trust yourself first.
If s/he seems unwilling to take it, set it down on the ground where s/he’ll feel safer. Then offer another piece in your hand. Repeat until s/he takes it from you. After one or two more pieces, you can try touching. When s/he takes the food from your hand, touch his/her chin with your fingers (as Mr. Rock Star did in the video)—which is another reason why you offer food from the palm of your hand and not from your fingertips.
When the dog allows touch, especially to the top of his/her head, youre ready for the leash.
~ THE ROUTINE ~
When a dog has proved too skittish for a short-term lure, another option is to create a feeding routine. Over the course of days, weeks, and even months, you’ll establish a feeding ritual—much like the one you have with your dogs at home. The goal is to get the dog to come to the same place at the same time every day (yes, including weekends), get him/her to associate you with food & safety, and get used to your presence.
You’ll be working up to touch him/her, eventually. For dogs that can’t be rescued, for any reason (lack of fosters, no shelter space, too skittish or scared), a feeding routine is often the only way to care for them. If the routine is working, it might even provide a way of administering medical treatment.
But these feeding routines have a problem, and its not just that theyre so time-consuming. In order for them to work, you need to become the dog’s primary source of food. If the dog is getting fed elsewhere, s/he might or might not show up. Which means you’ll need to find those other sources of food and figure out how to eliminate them. It might be a kind person, who might be willing to help with your rescue (or—dare we hope—adopt the dog?), but it’ll be one heck of a one-sided conversation if your “opponent” is, say, a restaurant trash bin.
Thank you so much for the visit, yall. Tomorrow well be talking about The Gratitude Myth... And, as always, Ill be looking forward to your feedback and insights. In the meantime, you might want to visit the other ladies in Ds Company: Damyanti is highlighting an incredible project for children in India; Soumya, whose sarcasm will have you giggling in no time; Andrea, an absolutely wonderful human being whos revolutionizing the role of music in her ESL classroom; Vidya, who most of you know already—and if you dont, you need to correct that immediately—and whos participating in the A2Z this year with not one, not two, not three, but FOUR blogs, ladies n gents! Then theres Misha and Samantha, who are both highlighting extraordinary writing projects you dont want to miss. Hop on over... Youll love what you find :)
